Dear Abby advises a woman who is catching feelings for a man who is not her husband because she is upset about having repeated conversations with her husband.

I just feel there was never official closure to our relationship, and I suspect it has always affected my subsequent relationships.

I've been thinking a lot about my first love, although I've been in my current relationship for seven years. Will this feeling pass? Will I always think she was the one? Should I reach out and try to ask for closure?

We have been talking on the phone only. We have had no physical contact. But when we talk, I experience feelings that make me want to be with him. I love my husband and our family, but I’m falling for this gentleman.